Confianza

Confiamos en alguien cuando creemos conocer sus intenciones. Desconfiamos de alguien cuando creemos desconocer sus intenciones; aun más claramente desconfiamos cuando creemos saber que oculta sus intenciones. En el primer caso, haga lo que haga y diga lo que diga,creemos saber que todo se corresponde con sus intenciones. En el segundo caso, nada que haga o diga nos convence de que no oculta algo.

¿Cómo podemos creer que conocemos las intenciones de otras personas? ¿Cómo podemos justificar esta creencia? A simple vista nos damos cuenta que las intenciones de otros son completamente invisibles a nuestros ojos. Lo más cerca que podemos estar de ellas es saber lo que otros dicen que son sus intenciones. Pero, ¿cómo podemos saber si lo que comunican es cierto? Y quedamos donde mismo, sin saber a qué atenernos.

La creencia de que conocemos las intenciones de otros seres humanos tiene siempre algo infundado. Podemos interpretar las intenciones como conversaciones que tiene alguien consigo mismo sobre su relación con las cosas, los seres vivos y los seres humanos que existen en el mundo. En general, una conversación en la que se dice a si mismo lo que ellos le provocan y lo que se propone hacer con los mismos. Por definición es una conversación siempre potencialmente privada y opaca a los demás. Más nos vale no pretender que la escuchamos o que la conocemos de ninguna manera.

Normalmente basar nuestra confianza en creer que conocemos las intenciones ajenas nos conduce a confiar en lo familiar y a desconfiar de lo no familiar. Simplemente porque suponemos desde el sentido común que conocemos aquello que es familiar. Así terminamos confiando en nuestros amigos, simplemente porque lo son, y desconfiando de los distantes, simplemente porque lo son. Manifestamos infinita paciencia y comprensión con las traiciones y abandonos de nuestros amigos en la misma medida que manifestamos impaciencia e incomprensión con las fallas de los demás. Mal aconsejados estamos los 15 millones de habitantes de este pueblo chico si creemos que podemos confiar así en el mundo.

En realidad no se trata de saber que alguien es confiable porque no podemos saber cuales son sus intenciones. No podemos basar la confianza en el saber. Lo que quiere decir que no podemos suponer que estamos seguros. En realidad, debido a que las intenciones son ocultas, los seres humanos siempre podemos traicionar: podemos engañar  comunicando intenciones que  no son verdaderamente las que enemos.  Nada puede asegurarnos contra esta posibilidad. Pero la contrapartida de esta posibilidad de traicionar es la posibilidad de cumplir y guiarnos por buenas intenciones, y muchas veces de manera gratuita. Si le fuera prohibido a nuestro ser la traición, no le sería posible la nobleza.

Pero no podemos movernos entre las expectativas de traición y las expectativas de nobleza. Necesitamos inventar una manera de confiar que sea adecuada para movernos en el mundo ancho y ajeno actual, y al confiar hacerlo menos ajeno. La mejor manera por lejos de entender la confianza la encuentro en los trabajos de Fernando Flores. En particular recomiendo aquí el  documento sobre promesas y confianza disponible para los inscritos en su blog.  Sobre esto prometo seguir en otro post más adelante.
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